I think, one of the biggest struggles in life that we all have to face is changing. Sometimes, you are put in a situation you think you can never overcome. However, you never really get to know how much strength that you have in you until you experience it. I guess, one of the biggest aspects we struggle so much to adapt is probably because the fact that we are all scared. Scared of the changes. Scared of being outside our comfort zone. Scared of losing people we care about. Or worst, scared that we lose who we are as a person. We hold on too tightly on things that are familiar to us. We don't want to let go of them. But, life is supposed to be a roller coaster ride as what 'they' said it. We are all bound to change, all the time. We are bound to make changes or the situation force you to change. Things are not meant to be forever. One time, you're learning how to speak and other time, you have to deliver a speech in front of audience. There is also this other time that you meet the opposite gender for the first time in your life other than your dad or your mom. Then, it comes to the other time that you start dating one. It's crazy how life works. You NEVER get it. But, sometimes you need changes. You got to stop caring about what others think of you and worrying how to please them or how to keep them around because those who really care won't go anywhere. You got to stop blaming other people for all the wrongs that are happening in your life because sometimes things just don't go your way. You really got to stop complaining about the things you don't get and start appreciating everything that you have. Because, the truth is you never know when they are all going to be taken away from you. Appreciate it, treasure it, and live it up while you still can. Changes come with a lot of ups and downs. Sometimes you got to go through all the pain to achieve your happiness. Sometimes you have to get on your own feet to realize how strong you are. Sometimes you have to get lonely to start appreciating the things that you have taken for granted and live for the better. You got to take more chances. Maybe, you have to hurt someone or get hurt in the process but that is what life is all about. It is a bumpy road ahead. Nobody said it was going to be easy. Nobody said it was going to be all rainbows and colors. But, that is the funny thing about life. You just got to move forward. Who knows what's going to happen in the future? Maybe you'll meet that one person who got away? Or maybe marry your long lost love? Or create a bond with your enemy? Or be a succesful writer? You never know. Therefore, change is a good thing. Value it. It may even make you a better person. This is my family and we all changing :)